Decisions and Regrets
"A mistake is not something to be determined after the fact, but in light of the information available until that point" - Nassim tales
I consider a decision to be a thought process of one individual that particular time and perspective; it can be me here writing this blog in taking or considering a few relevant thoughts or facts, and it could be you or someone else reading this blog in any perspective that you or they have at that particular time; it completely depends on their own sensibilities, perspective of taking things, and it could even be reading this blog with emotion that they have at that particular time which can boring or annoying,
So decisions are something we make at a certain point in time when and where we believe they are correct, and the context of those decisions may and does alter even a second later.
I never took any decision of mine for REGRET, the reason is that, at that point of time I made a decision which I considered correct for a while and it can be me realizing the decision as wrong maybe the very next second but I never had my thoughts or time or my energy wasted in looking back at my decisions,
Regrets are something, I consider to be a pointless activity in life; it has no impact on your life unless you decide it's pointless. It's a worrying emotion that makes you feel incredibly worthless. I've never regretted any of my actions, even when they went wrong, and I've never looked back on them, the reason I feel or believe I have no regrets is because of one of my favorite lines from
Ayn Rand's Fountainhead, in which she says,“I regret nothing. There have been things I missed, but I ask no questions, because I have loved it, such as it has been, even the moments of emptiness, even the unanswered-and that I loved it, that is the unanswered in my life.”
Soo, I believe decision making is completely a thought process of that particular situation and time or can be circumstances that actually can be one of the reasons for you to make decision and regretting on that decision is completely pointless and an useless activity.
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